PAKISTAN MEIN OLD AGE HOMES KA BARHTA HUA RUJHAAN

Walidain dunya ka sabse azeem tohfa hain , yeh woh rishta hai jiski muhabbat aur qurbaniyon per koi shak nahi , yeh rishta Allah ki apne bandon se be panah muabbat ki nishani hai k woh apni makhlooq ki khair khuahi chahta hai aur unhen kabhi tanha nahi chorhta . Jab bacha paida hota hai to woh nihayat bebas hota hai us waqt sirf walidain hotay hain jo us ki bhook mitate hain , sardi garmi se bachatay hain aur unka har tarah se khayal rakhte hain aur inhen kabhi tanha nahi chorhtay lekin jab waqt guzar jata hai aur maa , baap boorhay hojate hain aur aulad jawan hojati hai to walidain ka wujood kuch bachon per nagawar guzarta hai , jab maa , baap aulad k muhtaj hotay hain to aulad unse bezar hojati hai , inki takleefon aur pareshaniyon se ukta jati hai , woh apne kaamon ko zyada ahmiat dete hain jab k walidain k sath waqt guzarna inko waqt ka ziyan lagta hai . Jab maa baap aulad ki tawajoh k muntazir hotay hain to aulad k paas un k liye waqt nahi hota , yehi waja hai k aj kal old age homes ka rujhan barhta chala jaraha hai aur log apne walidain aur azeezon ko old age homes mein dakhil krwane ko tarjeeh de rahe hain , yeh sochey baghair k apne rishte hotay hue bhi woh ghairon k sath zindagi kis tarah guzaren gay .

Aj kal nafsa nafsi ka daur hai , waqt machini hochuka hai , rishton mein itni dooriyan aa chuki hain k ab maa , baap , behan , bhai jaise rishte bhi bojh bangae hain . Nafarman aulad apne walidain ya azeezon ko jab old age home mein puhancha deti hai to usse ehsas tak nahi hota k un k pyaray wahan kitni be kasi , tanhai , be basi aur dukhon k sath zindagi guzarenge aur apni akhri sanson tak apne azeezon ka intezar karte rahenge . Baaz auqat log apne pyaron ki tadfeen ka intezam kar k samajhte hain k unhone apna haq ada kardia magar baaz aise bad qismat bhi hotay hain jo apne azeezon ko marnay k baadhi nahi puchte .

Aj kal jaga jaga khulnay walay old age homes is baat ki nishani hain k ab rishton mein bht dooriyan a chuki hain aur logon mein rishton ka ehtiram aur bardasht ka madda khatam hota ja raha hai isi waja se old age homes mein mojood logon ki tadad mein din-ba-din izafa hota jaraha hai . Agar in idaron mein ja kr  inlogon k sath waqt guzara jae to in k dukhon ka kuch madawa hoskta hai . Hum achay musalman honay ka dawa to krte hain lekin amal bilkul bhi nahi karte jab k Islam hamein buzurgon k sath shafqat se paish anay ka hukum deta hai . Agar hum Allah k ehkamat per amal karen to woh din door nahi k jab yeh old age homes weeran hojaen gay aur hamary ghar in buzurgon ki waja se abad hojaen gay . Hamein yeh baat yaad rakhni chahye k  humne jo boya hai wohi kaatna parhega chunachay hum angrezon ki andhi taqleed mein yeh na bhool jaen k yeh old age homes maghrib ka badtareen tohfa hai jisse hum mashriqi qaum ne baghair sochay samjhe qubool karlia hai . 

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                               ZARA KHALID (M.A PREVIOUS)